Would You Consider Paying For a Lady To Accompany You On A Trip Or A Holiday?

I Guess It's International Internet Dating, Only You Pay For It!

There's a growing trend of Internet dating, especially among the over 35's and I think it has something to do with the fact that the divorce rate for this age group is quite high and it's so difficult for single men and women with family and work commitments to actually go out to socialise, and let's face it, who wants to go on a big night out alone?! The "singles" nights on offer still have a certain taboo about them plus, I think you have to be quite outgoing and very positive towards allowing yourself to feel and look relaxed at a singles event, in any case and the thought of looking desperate leaves a bitter taste, especially if you are still recovering from a previous last relationship and you're out of practice on the 'new', 'modern' dating scene. (is there such a thing?)

So Many Singles, So Much Choice BUT Loads Of Nutters on the Internet!

I've heard some horror stories and some truly hilarious tales of who was waiting in the bar with a red rose on the table.... A guy friend of mine was internet dating for quite a while and he never seemed able to meet anyone who lived remotely near to him and he ended up going on dates all over the UK, some of which were really good and even lasted a few months but the funniest one was a gorgeous lady he met on a site for singles. She chatted to him for a few weeks, that turned into a few months and they progressed to Skype, web camming and even sent little pressies to one another through the post. He was totally smitten and she seemed to adore him as much. They knew lot's about one another and he even started telling his friends that he's "met the one"... (of course me being me, I was dubious as to 'how' much of the information he had found out about *Kitty was true) Of course yo need to follow your heart but I always tell my friends to keep thinking with their heads too; we all know love can be blind, or is that "make us blind"  

Distance Can Be A Hurdle Or A Challenge, OR BOTH

Thinking back, he was so so sure that they were truly compatible and as mates we were all excited for him..... ONLY THING WAS that she lived in Canada! Oops. But really and truly he wasn't phased about the long trip and possibility of falling deeply in love and having to move there and leave his children in the UK. He was approaching 40, single, not amazingly happy in his job and ready for adventure so off he went. He was away for 2 weeks and of course he had a good time but after a long heart to heart with his best mate when he got home, he admitted that she was actually nothing like "he'd imagined" and although they had a really good two weeks, she actually ended up annoying the hell out of him with her assumptions that he was not returning to the UK and her 'wedding plans' and it was no fault of her own; she just felt very strongly towards him and  very sadly, it wasn't reciprocated. There did not keep in touch. 

What's The Harm In Shopping Around?

There are always ladies being flown into places like Saudi and Kuwait by private jet and of course they aren't just there for afternoon tea and to be honest, if they are safe and paid well then I have no real negative opinions, however, I think that there's a fine line between women earning money in the sex industry of their own accord and women being trafficked by pimps for the sheer enjoyment and sexual pleasure of wealthy men, which needs to be stopped and can only be tackled when the corruption within border agencies, police forces and governments is stamped out, but that's another blog post, isn't it?

This Needs To Be Written About In A More Detailed Blog

I do get a few offers from guys in other countries as to whether I would consider allowing him to fly me over to his location to spend a few days or longer with him and admittedly, I find the thought rather sexy but I have a number one rule and it's called "SAFETY" So, I usually have to decline, unless we have already had lots of communication and/or already met previously. I did have a slip up last year that ended in disaster and totally reiterated my thoughts on meeting strangers for overnight trips and I'm still having nightmares about his awful behaviour and I promise to tell you the real story soon...

If You Pay For Her ~ She Won't Nag, Moan or Let Herself Go

I've noticed again recently that so many Escorts are now advertising more than the usual hour, 2 hour, dinner date and over night. It's quite common now to see the "Elite" Companion offering to accompany 'upscale' business men on their National and International trips, as well as providing a 'weekend away' service that will include lot's of 'boudoir play time', on top of romantic dinners, shopping and foot rubs (lol) I have a friend who didn't start escorting until her late 40's (although she has the body of a 25 year old) and she has been as far afield as Tokyo, Jakarta, Nepal and even Bermuda with her clients, but I hasten to add, that she is a well educated, sexy, extremely well spoken and classy ex BA cabin crew member from back in the day that airline cabin crew were thought to lead an ultra glamorous life and most of whom looked like models!  
How times have changed, let's not mention those awful budget airlines who seem to hire anyone.

BA Cabin Crew in The 70's Made The Front Cover Of Many Magazines

So, back to my original question, "Would You Consider Paying For a Lady To Accompany You On A Trip Or A Holiday?" or maybe just from another part of your country of residence? I have a couple of deliciously lovely clients who openly admit to taking a rather sexy service provider to accompany them on pretty much any overseas trip that they manage to go on.... needless to say they also admit to have a very different "taste" of lady with whom they spend only an hour with, to the lady that goes on a fully paid for 5* business trip. (damn..... that's me out then!) I love the honesty of these guys and it makes total sense to me for them to be extremely choosy. I asked them both what they 'require' in a lady to travel with:-

• She must be adequately intellectual, "it's not just an hour of sex"
• She has to look the part, ie:- business attire for lunch, evening dress for dinner, lingerie for the bedroom
• Helps if she is well travelled but not essential (guys love to educate us with new locations)
• He must find her R E A L L Y attractive if he's to spend lot's of time and money on their trip
• She MUST NOT look like an off duty porn star (not for this gig anyway! he he he)
• Her 'services provided' need to fit in with his appetite
• Of course price range is always a factor, even for the very wealthy clients

If only it were so easy for the ladies to find gents to fit in with their criteria..... trust me, it's not! 

 Yes  Yes  Yes  Please

I actually think that it would be a fantastic time to open an agency/website that's not trying to be something it's clearly not and let's face it, most of them have the fancy text and attractive women on their pages but they often don't cater for a wide spectrum of gentleman and they certainly don't always deliver the service they promise. They are very stereotypical but there are lot's of lonely people out there and the men who say in a very stern voice "nah, I DON'T need to pay for it love" are usually the ones who will always love themselves more than their prospective partner anyway, are too young to comment, have very limited funds, are not open minded and possibly telling porky pies anyway because boys...... the men who pay for companionship and or sexual services from a provider are no less a man than you my dear and probably far less probable to catch an STD than picking up a girl in a bar who probably does it every Friday night! Men who pay come from all walks of life, all job spectrum's and all social back grounds, why do't some people get this?

EVER!

   MY AGENCY..........

Would be.....

Milly's Real and Luxury Trip Companions

• I would have a great range of ladies from different nationalities, ages, religions, sizes
• I would ACTUALLY interview the ladies and get to know them a little (many agencies have only ever spoken to ladies on the phone!)
• I would have an extensive portfolio on each lady with my choice of photos by my photographer and none would be photo shopped, only touched a little where needed
• My ladies would all be coached adequately on make up, how to dress for what occasion, etiquette, safety, rules ect
• My security staff  and drivers would be the best in the business
• My ladies would have 3 monthly clinic (sexual health checks) at, what I think is the leading NHS clinic, in London. This would be compulsory
• There would only be safe sex and anyone providing unsafe practices would be cast off the books
• I would provide my gentleman clients with extensive info about the ladies that I felt may suit them and I could also provide a service to 'scout' for them if they weren't able to choose from my books.
• I would do a background check on all clients to ensure their personal information was correct
• I would provide lot's of information to clients about what my ladies do and don't provide
• My aim is NOT to provide only a sex service and more of a companion who he's compatible with
• I would be able to offer a very varied price range so not only affluent men could afford it
• I could provide many options for holiday destinations and even put together a bespoke package 
• My fees would be fair and in line with the high standards I deliver
• I would like to think of my agency like a paid dating site with all the frills and it would appeal to gentlemen who were without a partner, maybe a little lonely and would enable them to have a great holiday or short break with a gorgeous woman and not have to do all the chasing, all the wondering and planning, plus no strings and we know that lot's of guys like the idea of this

All I need now is my fantasy backer....... ha ha ha