Sometimes All We Need Is To Spice Up The Sex Life...

I Remember The early Years Of Marriage ~ We spent DAYS in bed!

Didn't We? Ordering in breakfast, lunch and dinner ~ eating it in bed!

We had Less Worries, No Children, Plenty Of Energy, A Huge Need To Fulfill...ahhhh (Milly takes a warm, deep breath) But it soon wears off...

You Know That Feeling?  When:~

• They brush past you and your heart nearly skips a beat
• They look into your eyes and you "melt"
• You don't feel hungry when you should
• When they touch you the butterflies in your stomach flutter
• You think about nothing else
• They text you and all you can do is grin
• You long to be with them ALL the time
• Their smell does something physiological to you
• You can feel your blood powering through your veins
• You long for sex with them over and over and over...

Oh my goodness....I'm getting a little hot and bothered just thinking about how amazing that feeling is and If I could capture it and bottle it, I'd be a millionaire!
                                         
Of course when you get married this 'honey moon' period can't and doesn't last forever. I presume it's different from person to person and couple to couple but when you have children that tends to be a real turning point in the intimacy department>My goodness, it brings back memories for me and when I get guys asking me questions or telling me about the lack of sex within their relationship, I really do feel for them and I try to help. I think, I've evolved into a bit of a Sexual Therapist and I love it! I try to look at it from both perspectives and I guess that's another good reason to visit a more mature provider as opposed to a younger girl who perhaps doesn't have a wider perspective on the intricate parts of relationships.

That old book of life really does has a lot to say for itself, doesn't it?

I often get asked things like:~

"she just doesn't want sex as often any more"
"we used to have a fantastic sex life"
"I can't even cuddle her without her getting funny with me as she thinks it's only sex I want"
"My wife never ever initiates sex"
"she would never ever wear sexy lingerie"
"she just likes one position only"

Of course not all couples have these problems and sometimes it's only for a period of time after a child or when the children are little or if she's at the age that she may be approaching hormonal changes.
And you know what the biggest problem is? COMMUNICATION! I've been guilty of it myself within a relationship and I think that the longer something is left;the harder it is to approach the subject and the bigger the problem becomes. Men are built very differently to women, emotionally, physiologically and mentally plus they have totally different needs to us in all departments.

Sometimes It's Easier To Pretend There's Nothing Wrong

Of course you need to keep talking, it's a fundamental part of any good relationship but really I can see both sides guys. No woman feels sexy after giving birth and when children are little it becomes a vicious circle. She works hard looking after children, cooking, cleaning and really doesn't want to feel like a "thing" that's there for sex on tap for her man! I hear you saying "I don't treat my wife like that" It's sometimes just how a woman feels. Come on guys, you get into bed next to your sexy wife and of course you want sex! You move close and spoon her, she feels that hardening manhood in her back, and boom....she say's no!

She's tired, feels unsexy,doesn't have her best underwear on and would just like a night when you don't want sex. You know what? I've always had the best sex in a hotel and not my own bed! Seriously, I think my mind is conditioned to associate my own bed with sleep and talking to my girl friends, they agree. I've been there, despite my high sex drive...he he he

How High Is Yours?

My suggestions o gentlemen friends are always pretty simple and I am taking into account that all circumstances are different. Women need to feel you understand them (even if you haven't a damn clue) you need to not let things get to a point that you can't even approach the 'S' word. Surprise her with a night away and make sure you let her know that it's NOT for sex but just to spend time together. Time to really be honest with each other and time to make a plan how you're going to get back on track. Many of my close friends have been through 'rough patches' and more often than not, they pass. Personally, I think than men shouldn't settle down 'till their late 30's and that if you meet and marry at a young age you need to keep the communication strong from the start as the changes from your 20'3 to your 30's are vast.

Spoil Her, Treat Her And Above All Surprise Her!

Run her a bath, make it smell great, add some candles. Wash her back! Even bathe together and laugh! Go for a lovely meal, somewhere different (Not Mc Donalds....joking!) and I feel that massage is the most effective way to become intimate again. Use a nice oil and even if your not that good at it, you'll learn quickly! Remember to do her feet as that's where all the important nerve endings are so she'll be truly relaxed. Even a neck, shoulders and head massage is beneficial....and could quite easily get the mood going.

   

Surprise Her With A Sexy Weekend?

If you can get to the UK or you live in the UK then a weekend in Scotland, The Lake District or The Malvern Hills is just exquisite. You can find a beautiful, quaint little hotel or 5* guest house where you'll get fed well, take in plenty of fresh air and experience quality time that doesn't involve shopping malls or crying children. I'm happy to recommend somewhere!

Tranquility On The Lakes Is Britain At It's Best!

For me, a naughty weekend is Amsterdam and the sexiest week is The Maldives. Amsterdam has so many cultural things, museums, cafes, great restaurants plus the kinky side. We used to visit Amsterdam a couple of times per year and we'd always hire bikes and cycle around like teenagers. It's so lovely to stop outside a cafe next to a canal and sit sipping coffee while watching the world go by.

Then there's the amazing sex shops, take her there and ask her to choose a few things she'd like to try, they have such great lingerie in Amsterdam and if you stay in a good hotel you'll be amazed because there's porn on several of the TV channels, it's megga sexy to sit and watch that together and if that doesn't get her in the mood then book a live sex show but you'll need to be prepared to do a little research for the good clubs as the regular ones are a little grotty and rather clinical.

Maldives is my No 1 for Romance

Wash your feet before you go in....

I saw a comment from Mr/Ms Anonymous telling me that I hadn't written about The Maldives, after mentioning it. Well here goes...
In relation to spicing things up, I really think that if The Maldives is within your budget then do it! Oh My Absolute God, I loved it so much that I had to return a while ago, although I will admit that it's the place to go for full on romance and lazing around. It's not a place for the guy's and gals who want the cultural experience and eating in street markets, exploring etc. it's the ultimate PLEASURE and intimate escape with the one you love...or Lust. I went the first time with a guy whom I was very much in love with (I think, at the time) We chose here because he wanted to impress, romance and capture my heart lol It was a while ago!
No, I don't know really, I think he booked it for 2 reasons 1. It was on my bucket list and  2. Kuoni had a fantastic offer not to be sniffed at! We booked for 2 weeks on a lovely island called Meerufenfushi (I think)
We arrived by water plane and stayed in a beautiful villa on stilts.

You will think I'm silly but I swear this is true, I CRIED when we arrived. I had always dreamt of going to such a beautiful place and it was magnificently more captivating than any photo could have shown it to be. (bit like me)

We had a Jacuzzi on the balcony and the stairs went straight into the sea which was amazing for that midnight swim. We could sunbathe and swim naked and have dinner served on the beach. We dived, snorkeled, played tennis, went on a couple of lovely excursions, ate fantastic food, drank cocktails under the stars every night, visited the spa every day and when we got back to the villa each night we found fruit, chocolates, flowers and always a beautifully made thing on the bed like a kind of "sheet origami" ha ha. The staff were excellent, the place was a dream and the sex was morning, noon, night and in between!

So Guys...if you wish for any help as to where to take your lady in the Maldives, I'm here to help.
If you do go make sure you visit the mosque in Male and do take the night fishing trip, it's awesome.

Milly x

A Nice Hotel In Amsterdam      Read About The Lakes    5* with Kuoni 

An Interesting Article On Why Women Go Off Sex

What Service Do I Provide And Why Am I So Different?

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

I Provide a Professional, Confident Prostate Massage & Milking, Is It For You?

Men's Sexual Health Vs Men's Sexual Pleasure

I don't want to blow my own trumpet but I've been studying prostate health and massage for a couple of years now and I have read many studies done in different countries with regards to the horrifying trend of rising numbers of prostate cancer in men. It's not for everyone and many ladies profess to offer it but few know what they are doing.

I was first introduced to prostate massage over 2 years ago by an American client who would visit London on business regularly. He requested it during one of our sessions but I have to admit that the whole idea of 'anal play' didn't float my boat and I was a little reluctant at first. He spent lots of time with me showing me exactly where the gland was and how it worked and I went home to do a little of my own research on the internet.

I want to share my experience and inform you about some of the facts and even dangers surrounding the whole 'prostate massage thing' I hope it helps you because there are so many websites when you google it and I've tried to narrow my information down to what I think are the important bits.

Looking on the escort web sites you'll see many ladies now offering Prostate Massage and I think it's become a big trend because providers have realised that men like it in a "sexual" context as opposed to a medical or preventative therapy, which is absolutely fine if it's done properly. I have heard many clients tell me how they've requested Prostate Massage from an escort and have had a very bad experience.

Dont Just Let Anyone Play With Your Prostate!

What you must consider is that you choose a provider who really does understand the therapy it'self and how delicate that are is. Vigorous prostatic massage may be very dangerous if not done with care. There is always a chance of the very thin rectal lining adjacent to the prostate tearing or being damaged by a fingernail or an implement. You're probably thinking that it's rare for this sort of damage but I have 2 clients who are both surgeons and they both say that rectal reconstruction surgery is also on the increase, it's just not spoken about.

Anal play for men was always associated with gay men and was a little Taboo a few years ago and the only time you heard of prostate massage was in the hospital or clinic and performed by a nurse, usually due to the man having an Enlarged Prostate or suffering other Prostatic problems.

The Prostate Gland ~ The Male Hot Spot

The gland it'self secrets a fluid into the semen before ejaculation....yes, I didn't know that either! The     fluidactually prolongs the life of the sperm once it leaves the penis so that it's able to penetrate the wall of a womans vagina to aid pregnancy. I LOVE SCIENCE! I guess Prostate Massage may actually help with couples having fertility problems...ooh, maybe I should advertise for couples to come to me for a lesson.

It's also a healthy and pleasurable practice and a great way to maintain a healthy prostate. 

I'm not going to explain EXACTLY how I perform my massage as I have my own trade secrets (ha ha) but I'm more than happy to show you if you book an appointment with me. That goes for you too ladies!

A Few more Tips

• It can help gentlemen who are experiencing decreased sensation when they have sex
• You must stop the massage if there is any discomfort or pain
• Prostate massage can also be beneficial even if no fluid comes out 
• Its a FACT that prostate  massage on a weekly or fortnightly basis can help prevent prostate cancer which is on the rise
• It gets the blood moving through that reproductive area, which is good
• The blood becomes Oxygenized in that area
• It cleanses the inside of the gland which is also good
• It pushes out the bacteria that are accumulated inside the prostate gland
• The Prostate Gland is a key contributor to male orgasm
• You may feel like you are about to urinate during the massage, Don't Worry, it's normal

Please remember that prostate massage alone will not guarantee you perfect Prostate Health but with a   

varied and healthy diet and lifestyle it can definitely help protect you now and in later life.

I am available at various times and dates in the following places:~

USA

Canada

Dubai

Abu Dhabi

Bahrain

Doha

Lebanon

UK

If you would like to book me in London or The Home Counties then please send me an email for outcall availability and cost.

Keep Healthy!

Milly xxx

Email millystriker@hotmail.co.uk

 

 

 

It's About Time The Authorities Got The Fake Police In The Middle East...

                               The UAE Brings A Whole Lot Of Different Problems


Of course where there's working girls there's scammers, liars, fakers, dangerous men and problems
it's part of the job and as women working away from home, often alone, we need to be extra vigilant because unfortunately, there are many people who wish us harm it's a sad world that we live in and sadder still that we have to trust no one.

I hear you saying "surely it can't be that bad" Yes, it can be.....and worse! I have been scammed a few times and kicked myself after the incident and thought to myself "argghh, I should have played that differently" but when you're in a situation that could potentially be life threatening, there's no time to ponder. It's a matter of thinking quickly and acting fast. I have stories that could curl your toes and one day I'll tell you a few.

WARNING IN Abu Dhabi 31st March 2013

My friend is in Dubai right now and we keep in touch via email every day. I have given her some of my friends names over there if she needs any help or gets any trouble. She had a guy book an appointment in AD and he sounded fine on the phone. He arrived and entered the room...he didn't want to pay the full hour price and that's ALWAYS a give away.

A gentleman will always pass over the donation immediately and the money is never discussed!

He wanted to pay half the agreed price so my friend said that it meant he could only stay for half the time ie half an hour. He was still hesitant but agreed. After they had finished the appointment he stood up and said that he was Abu Dhabi Police. My friend was really scared and he continued to tell her things that are totally untrue. Unfortunately, she is quite new to The UAE so she wasn't able to verify in her head that what he was saying was absolute Bull Shit!

He told her that he knew all about her and where she had been staying. He said that he was "happy with the way in which she was working" (asshole) and that she was fine to continue working so long as he received no complaints about her!

This part made me chuckle~ He said that the hotels have to fax over ALL passports twice per day to the Police stations. There's only one police station and the hotels DO NOT do this.

He sat there for another hour filling her head with crap and scaring the poor girl into thinking he was a good guy for not arresting her. He took back the money he had paid her and asked where she would be staying in Dubai.

OH MY GOD WHAT A THIEVING ASS HOLE!

This is not uncommon. The nasty men play on the fact that prostitution is illegal and that women working in The Middle East are scared of what may happen if they're caught. These men take advantage of our situation and have even known to be violent if the girl resists.

My advise is to check I.D. Cards and ask him to take you to the police station rather than offer a freebie. Even with a freebie he could become violent. Make sure your friends know you are working and where and if anything happens ensure you keep the number to share with other ladies.
A report can be sent anonymously with his cell number to the Dubai Police and they can check out who the mobile phone is registered to.

Like I say, there are some total assholes out there!

Stay Safe in The UAE Ladies!

If you are thinking of working out in The UAE and would like any guidance, please feel free to contact me

mllystriker@hotmail.co.uk

Is The Jury Still Out on Ladies And 'Wish Lists'?

In The Ideal World Of Materialism I Would Like To Have...

It's become common practice in recent times for working ladies and even non working ladies to post their 'Wish List' online in the hope that guys will lavish them with gifts. I think the trend was started by Porn Girls and has caught on really quickly with all of the technology at our fingertips. In return for the gifts, some of the ladies offer erotic video clips, web camming sessions or sexy personal photos of themselves wearing the item(s) bought for them.

 Some guys are just happy to have the thrill of knowing that the lady is wearing the underwear he bought her or that she is using the sex toy on her self while he's having his own private little fantasy! I'm sure that there are a huge variety of gifts passing hands and if you look at the wish lists posted via Amazon you will laugh. One girl was asking for a Fish Tank and another wanted a garden chair! Of course the most popular things are:~

• Thigh Length Boots
• Sexy Slut Shoes
• Evening Dresses
• Latex or Rubber Items
• Domination Accessories
• Perfume
• Bath Oils
• Whips
• Lingerie
• Make Up
• Hand Bags
• Vouchers

I have a few girl friends, some of whom often receive presents through the post and they are ladies who post every day on Forums, Social Networking Sites, Escorting Sites and Dating Sites. I think they acquire what I'd call "gentlemen fans" of and they begin to build a rapport which almost equates to an online fantasy boyfriend/girl friend scenario. I'm sure that not all of them are of this exact nature but there aren't many guys out there who will buy presents for a complete stranger and receive nothing in return!

There have been programmes on TV made about girls who do this for a living and it's become known as "rinsing" The question is IS THERE A DIFFERENCE?

I thought I'd try it a while ago. I mean, clients often bring me lovely gifts in the Middle East and if it's so acceptable to let them know what you like....then why not?I have to admit that my list was compiled in around 20 minutes and it was a tad tongue in cheek...My first wish gift was a Mini Cooper Cabriolet for goodness sake! My mother always said to me "if you don't ask, you don't get my dear" I don't think I was thinking seriously or indeed realistically but I asked myself what I'd really love that I either couldn't afford or simply wouldn't buy for myself.

I linked the wishlist to my Twitter account and a few of my adverts and left it therefor a few weeks.

One day I was amending an advert of mine and I clicked onto the wish list I'd written. OH  MY  G_D I thought! I must look like a right greedy, money grabbing, selfish bitch and I took the wish list off the adverts. I just felt that guys would perhaps not see the funny side of it.

I know a young beautiful escort who had a great way of being "gifted" She is retiring at the end of this year and she has a kind of lottery going on. For every present she receives, the name of the gentlemen goes into her diary. At the end of each month she puts them all into a hat and then keeps the winners names. Just before she retires a winners name will be chosen at random and he will get a whole night with her! It's worth nearly 1000GBP and will be a fantastic prize......I wonder how many and what sort of presents she's receiving...

Going back to my list. I was working in Abu Dhabi (after I'd taken my list down) and a regular client of mine made a booking. He arrived with two bags which was unusual and promptly gave me them. One had a HUGE box of hand made chocolates in and the other had a new Samsung S111 phone! I was absolutely speechless and almost burst into tears. He said he'd seen it on my wish list and wanted to surprise me. It certainly surprised me. I felt like I shouldn't accept such an expensive present and told him that even my past boyfriends hadn't bought me something as extravagant for no reason at all....he laughed at me.So I guess my point was proved that wish lists can and do work and my goodness I LOVE MY PHONE!

On that note I suppose I should take the liberty of updating my list (lol)

Milly's New Wish List

1. A Car~Any Car~A Used Model  Is Fine~No need for anything too Fancy but a mini would be lovely
2. Botox At Harley Street Clinic (just eyes and forehead!!)
3. A Pair of Black Laboutins size 7UK
4. Chopard Sunglasses with a little bling on the arms
5. An Appointment At REAL Hair In London for New Extensions 
6. A Round The World Plane Ticket (including South America/Asia)
7. A Luxury, easy assemble, Tent (for The Festival Season)
8. Private Lessons to Learn Arabic
9. A 1st Class Flight To UAE
10. Spa Pass For A Whole Year
11. Boot Camp In Canada (weight and fitness)
12. A Shopping Spree In Macy's NY
13. Tom Ford and Chanel Perfume

(You should see the bucket list!)

"Here's Looking At You Kid"

~Casablanca 1942

Milly xx

 

Dubai ~ The Playground That Never Sleeps

C'Mon, Where Shall We Party Tonight Girlfriends?

When I first got to Dubai I wasn't sure where to go and just kind of went with the flow. Now that I've go so many friends living in Dubai I know exactly where to go and on which night, depending on my mood.I'm not always up for a late party night but my gorgeous "side kick" Lucy is a bit of a Party Animal and often persuades me to go out.

My friends range from English Guys who have businesses in The UAE to Local Emirates who were born and bread here. I've been so so lucky to have been taken to some beautiful 'hang outs' and my companions are always so determined to make sure I have a great time. That's one of the wonderful things about Arab Gents; they always look after their guests on a night out and never let you pay for a thing. That took me a while to get used to, you see in my country gentlemen, the men like their women 'friends' to pay her way lol!! Some even expect a lady to pay for them too! Lets not go there... I'm a very independent woman and really like to treat people as well as being treated myself. Some would call me a "Giver" no pun intended gentlemen...

I am an 80's girl so I spent the best part of my teens 'raving', clubbing in London, partying in Ibiza and Tenerife and having a  C R A Z Y  time surrounding our musical culture of that era.

I have an eclectic taste in music but give me a decent beat and a dance floor...

As for my bestie side kick, Lucy...oh my goodness, she's the dance floor queen!(or should I say DANCING ON THE BAR Queen)  

If you ever want to have a fab night out with two attractive English Ladies then give us a call but be warned that we can out party most people!                          

                                                                Barasti Bar

Always a great place to drink and dance and people watch!

                                                             

                                                              The Cavalli Club

This is really the cream of the crop, so luxurious and decadent  

Very pretentious but the cocktails are amazing.

                                                                 

Embassy Club                   





One of my loves and hates.

                                                         Rock Bottom

   

I first went here on a Ladies night with a few friends from the Military.

            There was a live band and boy did we have a laugh.

It's not a high class venue but more like a pub and its the company.

                                      

Of course there are a few more places I frequent but I don't like to divulge too much in case you stalk me!


Milly xx


 

It's Clearly Confusing For Some Gents To Comprehend

Milly's Questions and And Answers
'The One-Off Clinic'

Because I'm a masseuse and because I'm within the "erotic massage arena"  and there's a huge percentage of ladies offering sexual intercourse, I often get asked:  

"But Why Don't You Do Sex?"

I do indeed get somewhat tired of explaining myself and to be totally honest, I don't see why I should really have to explain. It's a personal choice, one that I'm very happy with and I find that my clientele visit me for a variety of different reasons:~

• I just adore HUGE breasts, and yours are the biggest 'natural' ones I've EVER seen
• I don't want full intercourse but I love a good blow job
• Because you don't offer full services, I feel that you're sexual health is "safe" for me
• I love a REAL massage, many of them are just a quick rub down
• I have a stressful job and the service you provide sounds like "just what I need"
• British women are friendly (most are lol) and there's no language barrier
• I am REALLY curious about Prostate Massage so I want to try it
• Most women offering Prostate Massage haven't got a clue how to do it

I know that it's great to visit a lady and know E X A C T L Y  what you will and wont get but seriously...my adverts are so informative that if gentlemen actually took the time to read it, they would know most of the answers already. Maybe some of them find me a challenge?

Of course I get the "wacko" mail, like all ladies do.....the "fantasist" mail and the "Mr 1000 questions mail and I try to be as helpful and as tactful as possible but when I can see immediately that a gent HAS NOT READ A THING it really gets my goat! I know that firstly he's a potential Time Waster and secondly that he will be Hard Work and could even be dangerous!

Milly's List of TYPES of client:~ (ladies, feel free to add to it)

• The Wacko-just totally mentally challenged. A Serious DON'T SEE!
• The Fantasist-probably can't afford to see you anyway (full of shit)
• The Mr 1000 Questions-Non Stop emails, asking really silly things
• The Down Right Rude-Rude from the outset. Another DON'T SEE!
• The Sweet Shy-This can go either way as he may be too nervous to follow through with the session
• The Genuine/Regular/Nice/Normal-I LOVE YOU!
• The "I want Sex Chat"-Call a chat line Darling, It Ain't Gonna Happen!
• The I want a Friend-Then join a Social Network!
• The Liar-Many of these in the Middle East but I'm no fool
• The Haggle King-PLEASE DON'T EVEN TRY IT- DELETE   BLOCK  DELETE  GO AWAY
• I will Never Book You-I just happened to come across your advert.....blah blah blah
• Can I pick you up from the airport- Please! Do I sound like a bloody Fool?
• Can I be your first client-Sure, no problem but when there's 3 of you Do I Toss A Coin?
• Can We Just "hang out"-Does that mean you don't want to pay me for my time?

.......and the list goes on

This is one of the reasons that I am SELECTIVE TO WHOM I ENTERTAIN
I love men, I really enjoy my job, the travel, the freedom but I just find it baffling how certain gents want to complicate the whole process. It just spoils it for the Genuine, Friendly, Lovely Guys as I'm always having to be so very clear and really strict with my procedures.

I've compiled a few Questions And Answers Below that may help a little: -

Q. You don't show your cell number so how do I contact you?

A. If you send me the details I ask for on my advert, I will get back to you with booking details

Q. You don't offer intercourse, why?

A. If you feel the need to question this then why not just book a lady who does offer it?

Q. Does the session include me playing with your breasts and pussy?

A. As per my advert, I love gentle breast play and licking my nipples but NO pussy Play

Q. I'm 20 and Fit, Good looking, Healthy and I love older women, Please see me!

A. I'm sure you are but my Personal Preference is not to see gentlemen under 25, sorry

Q. I've booked an appointment with you but I can't make it.

A. That's not a problem. All it takes is a quick text. If you simply DON'T TURN UP I will keep your number/email address as a NO SHOW and will NEVER accept  booking from you again. I will also share your details with other escorts!

Q. Can I come more than once?

A. Yes of course, I never rush to the finish line but please mention your wish at the beginning of the appointment

Q. Can I come on your face or in your mouth?

A. I know I have amazing lips but I only allow you to come in a condom or on my amazing Huge, Soft, Sexy Breasts! Why waste it!

Q. Can I take you for a coffee?

A. Sure, my hourly rates will apply.

Q. Will you visit me at my home?

A. Only if I have seen you before. I only provide out calls to 4/5* Hotels

I hope this has helped as they are the most frequently asked questions for me.

Hope to meet you soon for a Sexy Sensual Candlelit Session!

Milly xx